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Dr. Mary Cotten

Dr. Mary Cotten, TX Psychologist 24906, NM Psychologist PSY0791

Therapist · Texas · 30+ years of experience

Practical, experienced psychologist for life transitions

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At a glance

Listed location
Texas
Experience
30+ years
Credentials
TX Psychologist 24906, NM Psychologist PSY0791
Languages
English
License (Texas)
Psychologist · No. 24906
License (New Mexico)
Psychologist · No. PSY0791
NPI
1730190752

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  • 30 years experience
  • Cognitive behavioral therapy
  • Focus on aging issues

About Mary

Dr. Mary Cotten helps people who are feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, depression, or big life changes. She is a psychologist licensed in Texas and brings 30 years of experience to sessions. Her approach is calm and down-to-earth, and she aims to make conversations easy to begin.

She works with people facing relationship strain, family of origin issues, grief, addictions, and compassion fatigue. She also helps with intimacy concerns, self-esteem, career questions, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and the particular challenges that come with aging and geriatric issues. Her work is practical and focused on everyday problems.

Dr. Cotten primarily uses cognitive behavioral therapy, which means she and the client look at thoughts and actions that get in the way and try new ways of responding. Sessions are conversational and aim to identify specific patterns that cause distress. She prefers a relaxed, non-judgmental tone and emphasizes listening first.

Clients can expect the therapist to help name problems, set goals, and develop clear strategies to reach those goals. She often suggests small, doable steps that build toward larger change. Scheduling can include daytime hours and evenings by arrangement.

Dr. Cotten conducts sessions in English and holds licensure as TX Psychologist 24906 and NM Psychologist PSY0791. People considering her services are encouraged to review session options and scheduling details before booking.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesCodependencyControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesPost-traumatic stressWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Experience

30+ years

Credentials

Texas, New Mexico

Languages

English

How CBT and Online Work Can Help with Everyday Struggles

Dr. Cotten uses cognitive behavioral therapy to help people notice thoughts that lead to unhelpful actions. CBT involves identifying those thoughts, testing them against reality, and practicing different responses to reduce anxiety or low mood. This approach is useful for worry, depression, stress, relationship patterns, and many life changes.

Her work is collaborative. Together the client and therapist decide which techniques to try and adjust them based on what fits the client's goals and daily life. Finding the best approach is an ongoing conversation rather than a fixed plan.

The original biography notes a preference for video sessions and availability by phone if that is more convenient, so confirm current session options when you book. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time. They also let people keep workday appointments or arrange evening times without rearranging their whole day. Talk with the therapist about what will work best for your routine and needs.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family of origin issues, grief, addictions, self-esteem, career concerns, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and aging and geriatric issues.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is relaxed and conversational with a focus on identifying patterns and practical steps. The work tends to be goal-oriented and focused on changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors.

What is her professional background?

She has 30 years of clinical experience working with a broad range of emotional and life difficulties, including long-term work with depression, anxiety, and adjustment to life transitions.

Where is she licensed and based?

She practices in Texas and holds licensure as TX Psychologist 24906 and NM Psychologist PSY0791.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions scheduled and what does cost look like?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work together?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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