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Colette Safhill

Colette Safhill, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 20+ years of experience

Person-centred psychotherapist with wide experience

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At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
20+ years
Credentials
BACP
Languages
English
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 391617

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  • Person-centred approach
  • Trauma and relationships
  • Online phone in person

About Colette

Colette Safhill is a person-centred psychotherapist who draws on two decades of experience to help people through difficult times. She trained at the University of Essex and holds BACP accreditation, and she works in a non-judgemental way with whatever a person brings to a session.

She listens first and follows the client’s lead to understand what matters most. Sessions focus on practical steps as well as talking things through. Colette aims to make therapy straightforward and approachable for people under stress or facing change.

Over 20 years she has developed additional training in relationship therapy, trauma work, adoption-related issues, eating disorders, domestic abuse support and EMDR. That background means she can draw on a range of methods to match a person’s needs rather than using a single fixed approach.

Colette also supports people dealing with ageing and geriatric issues, caregiver strain, chronic illness and cancer related concerns, along with grief and attachment difficulties. She uses therapeutic tools to help with sleep, eating, anger, self-esteem and coping with life transitions.

She offers sessions online, by phone and in person, and is comfortable working with clients in the United Kingdom and internationally. To begin, people complete a short questionnaire and book according to the therapist’s schedule.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepression

Also works with

LGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How Colette’s approaches translate to online therapy

Colette uses a person-centred approach that prioritises the client’s concerns and pace, creating space to talk through what matters most. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is used to identify unhelpful thinking patterns and try practical steps to change them, which can be useful for anxiety, mood and sleep problems. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a trauma-focused method she has studied and may use to help process distressing memories when appropriate.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Colette will discuss goals and preferences with each person and suggest which methods might help most. She adapts techniques to suit an individual’s needs rather than insisting on a single path forward.

The biography confirms she is qualified to work online and by phone, so please check the booking details to confirm current session formats. Online and phone sessions can make it easier to fit therapy around work, caregiving or mobility limits, and they allow continuity for people who live at a distance. If you prefer in-person meetings, she also offers those, and she will help you decide which option best suits your circumstances and practical needs.

Frequently asked questions

What kind of problems does Colette help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, grief and trauma, as well as relationship and intimacy issues. Additional focuses include ageing and geriatric issues, caregiver stress, chronic illness and eating or sleeping difficulties.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Colette practises a person-centred approach, listening first and responding to each person’s needs. She also uses practical techniques from cognitive and behavioural models when helpful.

How long has she been practising?

She has 20 years of experience working as a psychotherapist and has completed post-qualifying training in several therapy types including relationship work and trauma approaches.

Where is she based and what are her credentials?

She works in the United Kingdom and is a BACP member, which is stated as her professional credential.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English, and she is able to work with international clients.

What session formats does she provide?

The biography states she is qualified to work online, on the phone and in person; confirm current session options when booking to match your needs.

How are costs and payments handled?

Costs vary with location and the therapist’s schedule; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start therapy with her?

Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

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