Therapist listings are provided by BetterHelp. We will earn a commission at no additional cost to you if you use our links to purchase.

Demelza (Demi) Rowe

Demelza (Demi) Rowe, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 16+ years of experience

Compassionate practical support for life challenges

Continue with Demelza

Opens BetterHelp in a new tab, where you can review online therapy options.

At a glance

Listed location
United Kingdom
Experience
16+ years
Credentials
BACP
Languages
English
Registration (United Kingdom)
BACP · No. 80386

Copied as listed by the therapist. You can check a registration with the body that issued it.

  • Trauma and grief
  • Relationship and intimacy
  • Stress and anxiety

About Demelza

Demelza (Demi) Rowe offers help for a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and relationship and intimacy issues. She also lists support for ADHD, eating and sleeping problems, self-esteem, career changes and ageing and geriatric issues. Demi uses clear, simple language and aims to make it easier to take the first step towards change.

Demi works in a friendly and supportive way. She draws on client-centred foundations so people feel heard and respected. From there she blends in practical tools from cognitive behavioural and mindfulness approaches to help manage difficult thoughts and feelings.

Sessions focus on understanding what is happening now and on building small, useful skills to cope day to day. She explains techniques plainly and adapts them to each person. That might mean learning relaxation skills, trying short behavioural experiments, or spotting unhelpful thinking patterns.

Her background includes sixteen years of practice and registration with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. That experience includes work with trauma, abuse, bereavement and mental health concerns. Demi says she prefers to keep therapy straightforward and practical so people can see gradual change.

People who choose her often want calm, down-to-earth support and clear steps to manage their situation. If you are unsure whether she is the right fit, the first conversations are intended to clarify goals and choices. To begin, use the site process to match with her and arrange sessions.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesDepression

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

16+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How her approaches translate to online counselling

Attachment-based work focuses on patterns in close relationships and how early experiences shape current reactions. Online sessions using this approach help people notice repeated relationship patterns and try gentler ways of connecting. Client-centred therapy puts the person at the heart of the work by offering non-judgemental listening and support; online meetings give time to talk things through and feel understood. Cognitive behavioural therapy, or CBT, looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and actions and uses short practical exercises to shift them; this can be useful for anxiety, low mood and sleep or eating concerns.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will work with each person to decide which methods feel most helpful given their goals and preferences. Decisions about pace and techniques are made together so the work fits what the person wants to achieve.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so please confirm current options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It also lets people try different ways of working from wherever they are, and the therapist can recommend practical adjustments to help sessions run smoothly.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can I bring to therapy?

Demi supports a broad range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, eating and sleeping problems, ADHD and ageing and geriatric issues.

How would she work with me in sessions?

Her style is friendly and supportive with an emphasis on being heard. She mixes person-centred listening with practical techniques such as cognitive behavioural and mindfulness-based work to help manage feelings and behaviour.

How much experience does she have?

She has sixteen years of practice experience working with a wide range of mental health, trauma and relationship concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and practices in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to try therapy with her?

Choose Start Therapy, complete the short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Demelza (Demi) RoweContinue with Demelza