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Ellen Shafer-Lind

Ellen Shafer-Lind, LIMHP

Therapist · Nebraska · 36+ years of experience

Compassionate counselor for life transitions

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At a glance

Listed location
Nebraska
Experience
36+ years
Credentials
LIMHP
Languages
English
License (Nebraska)
LIMHP · No. 3517
NPI
1245409689

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  • Collaborative approach
  • Practical coping skills
  • Aging and caregiver focus

About Ellen

Ellen Shafer-Lind is a LIMHP who helps people navigate stress, anxiety, grief, relationship and intimacy concerns, and the pressures that come with caregiving and aging. She works with people facing depression, addiction, trauma, eating issues, anger, and major life changes. Ellen brings a steady, compassionate presence to sessions and aims to help people feel more grounded and able to cope.

With 36 years of experience, Ellen draws on a mix of practical approaches rather than a single method. She often uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify unhelpful thoughts and try new behaviors. She also uses client-centered and psychodynamic ideas to listen deeply and look at patterns that affect daily life. Solution-focused techniques help people set short-term goals and notice progress quickly.

Ellen’s background includes work with Veterans and experience in hospital and home-based settings. That practical work influences her straightforward, problem-solving style. Sessions tend to focus on skills people can use right away and on building more satisfying relationships.

She is located in Nebraska and offers care to people concerned about aging and geriatric issues, caregiver stress, blended family dynamics, and other family-of-origin or relational problems. Ellen emphasizes collaboration, respect, and pacing that fits each person’s needs.

People who meet with her can expect clear discussion of coping strategies, exploration of life patterns, and support through grief or transition. The goal is to help people feel more capable and less overwhelmed as they move forward.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseEating disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Psychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

36+ years

Credentials

Nebraska

Languages

English

How Ellen’s approaches fit into online therapy

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening, acceptance, and helping people find their own solutions; it is useful when someone needs a supportive space to sort feelings and values. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) identifies unhelpful thinking patterns and tests small behavior changes to reduce anxiety or depression and improve daily functioning. Psychodynamic ideas look at recurring relationship or emotional patterns to understand how past experiences shape present reactions.

Choosing the right approach is often part of the work. Ellen collaborates with each person to decide which methods match their goals and preferences. She will suggest options, try different techniques, and adjust the plan as progress is made so the process stays practical and relevant.

Confirm current session options before booking so you know what formats are available. In general, online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. It also lets people continue work during life transitions or when in-person visits are difficult. Licensed professionals can adapt the approaches above to remote sessions and focus on skills, goal-setting, and emotional processing just as in face-to-face work.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Ellen help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, addictions, trauma, eating concerns, anger, and career or life-change struggles. Additional focuses include aging and geriatric issues and caregiver stress.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is compassionate and practical. Sessions combine listening, problem solving, and tools you can use between meetings.

What is her professional background?

She has 36 years of clinical experience, including work with Veterans and roles in hospital and home-based counseling settings.

What credentials and location are on record?

She is listed as LIMHP and practices in Nebraska.

In which languages can sessions be held?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with this therapist?

Yes, international clients are accepted.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started with therapy here?

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