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Kathy Rubendall

Kathy Rubendall, LCSW

Therapist · North Carolina · 30+ years of experience

Experienced LCSW offering steady, practical support

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At a glance

Listed location
North Carolina
Experience
30+ years
Credentials
LCSW
Languages
English
License (North Carolina)
LCSW · No. C001832
NPI
1831781368

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  • Client-centered care
  • Practical coping skills
  • Warm interactive style

About Kathy

Kathy Rubendall is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with three decades of experience helping people navigate hard moments. She focuses on practical support for stress, anxiety, depression, grief, addiction, and career change. Kathy writes and talks plainly, and aims to make therapy feel respectful and approachable.

She uses a warm, interactive counseling style built on acceptance and mutual respect. Sessions focus on the client's goals and on clear, doable steps. Kathy combines client-centered care with cognitive behavioral ideas and problem-solving techniques.

Her background includes work with bipolar disorder, trauma, and attachment matters related to international adoption. She has also supported people dealing with issues tied to military service and bariatric surgery before and after the procedure.

Kathy also addresses concerns common to caregiving and aging, including caregiver stress and aging and geriatric issues. She helps with sleep and eating concerns, body image, and coping with life changes that follow health problems or chronic conditions.

People meet her for help with relationships, communication problems, codependency, and building self-esteem. Her goal is to walk alongside each person and help them find practical ways to manage symptoms and move toward clearer choices.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsGriefBipolar disorderDepression

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseEating disordersSleeping disordersSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Drug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersParanoiaPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Smoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Motivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Credentials

North Carolina

Languages

English

How Kathy’s Approaches Shape Online Work

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and building a respectful relationship where the client's priorities lead the work. This approach helps when people need support sorting values, making decisions, or feeling heard. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions interact and teaches practical skills to change unhelpful patterns; it can be useful for anxiety, depression, and sleep or eating concerns.

Choosing the right approach is part of the process and is done together. Kathy will discuss goals, try techniques, and adjust methods based on what helps most. The emphasis is on collaboration and on finding tools that fit the person's life and needs.

Session formats are not specified here, so confirm current online options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and remove travel time. It also lets people use video or audio in ways that match their comfort level. The focus is on practical access - getting therapy into everyday routines so work on goals can continue between sessions.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Kathy commonly address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, addiction, and mood disorders such as bipolar disorder. She also helps with relationship and communication problems and caregiver and aging-related concerns.

What is her general therapy style?

Her counseling style is warm and interactive, based on mutual respect and acceptance. Sessions focus on the client's goals and on practical steps to reach them.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 30 years of experience as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. That background includes work with trauma, attachment issues, and support around medical procedures like bariatric surgery.

Where is the therapist licensed and based?

She is licensed as an LCSW in North Carolina and practices from that state.

Which languages are used in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English only.

Can people outside the United States work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted; services are provided to clients consistent with her licensing and location.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to begin therapy?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a session according to therapist availability.

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