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Shirley Southard

Shirley Southard, LCMHC

Therapist · North Carolina · 20+ years of experience

Practical, compassionate help for life changes

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At a glance

Listed location
North Carolina
Experience
20+ years
Credentials
LCMHC
Languages
English
License (North Carolina)
LCMHC · No. 11871
NPI
1083651376

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  • 20 years experience
  • LCMHC credential
  • Focus on aging issues

About Shirley

Shirley Southard helps people manage stress, anxiety, addiction, anger, depression, and life transitions. She also supports those facing ADHD, grief, parenting challenges, relationship and family conflict, trauma and abuse, and aging and geriatric issues. Shirley brings calm and a listening presence to sessions and focuses on practical steps people can use day to day.

Shirley has worked in human services for about 20 years. Her background includes mental health, developmental disability, and substance abuse settings. She has experience with assisted medication management and with active military members and their families. She holds a Master’s degree in Counseling and is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC.

In sessions Shirley keeps things straightforward. She listens without judgment and helps people name what feels wrong. Together they map small, realistic changes that make a difference in daily life. Techniques come from cognitive behavioral methods, motivational interviewing, and mindfulness practices.

Shirley uses psychoeducation so people leave sessions with concrete skills to try. She has worked with clients facing divorce, single parenting, addictions, mood concerns, and grief. Her approach aims to build hope and toward clearer next steps.

People who choose Shirley can expect a warm, accepting space to talk through difficult decisions. She emphasizes collaboration and practical tools that fit each person's circumstances. The goal is clearer choices and more manageable days ahead.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsAnger managementDepressionADHD

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityCommunication problemsControl issuesDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

North Carolina

Languages

English

How Shirley’s approaches translate to online therapy

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and acceptance. Shirley aims to create a warm, nonjudgmental space where people can talk through their concerns and decide on next steps. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts and behaviors affect feelings and teaches practical skills to change unhelpful patterns of thinking and acting. Dialectical Behavior Therapy, DBT, offers coping skills for intense emotions and helps with stress management and relationship challenges.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Shirley will work with each person to identify goals and preferences, then try methods that best match those needs. That plan can be adjusted as progress is made so sessions stay focused on what helps most.

Session formats were not specified in the biography, so please confirm the current options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life because it reduces travel time and can allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also make it simpler to continue work on mood, anxiety, addiction, grief, or aging-related concerns from different locations. Shirley uses coaching, psychoeducation, and skill practice that translate well across distance, and she will help tailor sessions to what works for each person.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Shirley address?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, addictions, anger, depression, ADHD, relationship and family issues, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting, coping with life changes, and aging and geriatric issues among other concerns.

What is her therapy style like?

Her style is warm and nonjudgmental with a focus on listening and practical steps. She works collaboratively to identify small changes that can improve daily functioning.

What experience does she bring?

She has about 20 years in the human service field, including work in mental health, developmental disability, and substance abuse settings, plus experience with assisted medication management and military populations.

What credentials and region are listed?

She holds a Master’s degree in Counseling and is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) in North Carolina.

Which languages are supported and can international clients connect?

Sessions are offered in English, and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Session formats are not specified in the biography; please confirm current session options before booking so you know whether video, phone, or in-person visits are offered.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with Shirley?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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