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Mary Cabarles

Mary Cabarles, LCSW

Therapist · California · 18+ years of experience

Compassionate care for life's transitions

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At a glance

Listed location
California
Experience
18+ years
Credentials
LCSW
Languages
English
License (California)
LCSW · No. 76807
NPI
1871190843

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  • Anxiety and trauma
  • Aging and caregiver stress
  • Practical coping skills

About Mary

Mary Cabarles is a California-based licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) with 18 years of experience. She helps people manage anxiety, stress, grief, trauma, and life transitions. Mary listens, talks through immediate concerns, and works with each person to set clear, practical steps forward.

She has worked across many settings, including group homes, residential care, job coaching, and public-sector services. That background includes work with people facing homelessness, domestic violence, criminal justice involvement, and complex, co-occurring disorders. Mary has experience with adults, elders, and people in hospice settings.

In private practice she focuses on real-life problems like strained communication, caregiver stress, self-esteem, addiction concerns, and intimacy-related issues. She also supports people dealing with aging and geriatric issues and the emotional impact of serious illness such as cancer. Sessions aim to be straightforward and goal-oriented, with an emphasis on what helps day to day.

Mary uses approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and client-centered methods to address symptoms and patterns. She also draws on attachment-based and existential perspectives to help people understand relationships and personal meaning.

Her practice grew during the pandemic out of a desire to help people manage mounting stressors like job changes, displacement, and caregiving strain. Mary offers weekend availability and focuses on creating a calm, practical space to sort through problems and plan next steps.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

18+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice painful thoughts without being ruled by them and then focus on actions that match their values. It can be useful for anxiety, stress, grief, and life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions connect and offers concrete skills to change unhelpful patterns, which often helps with anxiety, depression, and coping with difficult situations. Client-centered therapy centers the person’s experience, offering empathic listening and collaborative pacing to build clarity and confidence.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Mary will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful. Together they’ll try strategies and adjust the plan based on what helps in everyday life.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy schedule, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also help people keep therapy going through relocations or changing caregiving demands. Licensed professionals can adapt ACT, CBT, and client-centered techniques to an online setting to focus on practical skills and problem solving.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Mary work with?

Her listed areas include trauma and abuse, anxiety, stress, addictions, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, self-esteem, caregiver stress, and aging and geriatric issues.

What is Mary’s therapeutic style?

She uses a mix of evidence-informed approaches including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, client-centered work, attachment-based ideas, and existential perspectives to tailor care to each person.

How much experience does she have?

Mary has 18 years of post-graduate professional experience across group homes, residential programs, job coaching, public sector work, and hospice care.

What credentials and region are listed?

She is a California LCSW, listed as an LCSW practicing in California.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does she work with international clients?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How do fees and payment work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin sessions with Mary?

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