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Nirekha De Silva

Nirekha De Silva, ACA

Therapist · Australia · 20+ years of experience

Calm practical therapy for life changes

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At a glance

Listed location
Australia
Experience
20+ years
Credentials
ACA
Languages
English, Sinhala
Registration (Australia)
ACA · No. 81771

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  • Compassionate support
  • Practical tools
  • Ageing concerns

About Nirekha

Nirekha De Silva offers calm, practical support for people facing stress, anxiety, addiction and major life changes. She focuses on helping clients make small, steady changes that ease daily pressure and rebuild confidence. Nirekha aims to create a respectful, compassionate space where people can talk through what matters most to them.

With 20 years of practice in Australia, Nirekha uses conversational, goal-focused work rather than jargon. She listens for each person’s priorities and shapes sessions around real-life needs like coping with grief, parenting strains, career stress and relationship worries. She also helps people navigate ageing and geriatric issues and the stresses that come with caregiving.

Her approach draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and client-centred methods to help people notice what matters, change unhelpful thinking patterns and build practical skills. She can also use Dialectical Behaviour Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Therapy techniques when they suit the client’s goals.

Sessions tend to be straightforward and collaborative. Nirekha works with people on behaviours, emotions and thinking patterns, and she helps set realistic steps to try between sessions. She emphasises kindness and realistic progress rather than quick fixes.

People who choose Nirekha usually want practical tools and a steady, supportive counsellor who responds to their situation. To begin, clients are asked to complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

Australia

Languages

English, Sinhala

How therapeutic approaches shape online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters to them and take committed steps toward those values, even when difficult thoughts and feelings are present. This approach can be useful for anxiety, depression and coping with life transitions. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) focuses on the links between thoughts, feelings and actions, teaching concrete skills to change unhelpful thinking patterns and behaviours that maintain worry or low mood. Client-Centred Therapy emphasises a respectful, non-judgemental relationship where the person’s own goals guide the work and pace.

Choosing an approach is often part of the early sessions. The therapist works together with the client to pick methods that fit their goals, preferences and everyday life. That collaboration may mean combining elements from different approaches as needs change.

The original biography does not list specific online formats, so confirm which session types are offered before booking. Online sessions can make therapy easier to fit into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow check-ins during a lunch break or between commitments. Some clients find phone sessions useful when they prefer a shorter check-in or lower bandwidth, while video sessions support face-to-face conversation and practice of skills. Discussing practical arrangements is part of the first meeting so sessions can be fitted around work, caregiving and other responsibilities.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Nirekha commonly help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions and grief, among other issues such as parenting strain, caregiver stress and ageing and geriatric issues.

What is her general therapeutic style?

Her style is collaborative and down-to-earth, using goal-focused conversation and practical strategies to address thinking and behaviour that get in the way of daily life.

How much experience does she have?

Nirekha has 20 years of professional experience working with people on a range of emotional and behavioural concerns.

What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?

She is listed with the ACA and practises in Australia.

Which languages are offered in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Sinhala.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats, so please confirm the current session options before booking.

How are fees and payments handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with Nirekha?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist’s availability.

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